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Written by Nikki Frost   
Were we happily married, and my son had just left to college. The marriage seemed strong and going so well, until my husband, Jim, sat me down and said, "Honey, I want a divorce". I was horrified, but also to eager to learn how to get my husband back before I lost him forever.
by NikkiFrost


Were we happily married, and my son had just left to college. The marriage seemed strong and going so well, until my husband, Jim, sat me down and said, "Honey, I want a divorce". I was horrified, but also to eager to learn how to get my husband back before I lost him forever.

As I search for help, these are some of the lessons I learned:

Although I still loved him and wanted to learn how to win my husband back, I saw that I needed to stay strong and not let him get the upper hand. During our separation I did not want to be the one crawling back to him, so I decided to play hard to get, and make him realize that he was the one losing out here, not me.

In learning how to win your husband, if you find he still loves you, then it is best to get him talking about the marriage. But during this sensitive time, where he needs space to think seriously about the marriage, just keep the conversation casual before you start a fight. The odd phone call, text message or email are great ways of reminding him how much he needs you, without being overbearing.

And if you play your cards right, he may start showing some more interest in you, giving you the opportunity to remind him of the fond memories you share. In figuring out how to get my husband back, I did not talk about the any of the bad times we had, or about any hard feelings I had towards him. If I had, it would have given him a good reason to finalize the divorce.

If he gives no response to the memories you remind him of, it could mean two things. Either he has lost interest in you, or he simply need more space to think about the marriage, so give him as much time as he needs. However, if he reacts positively and shows some affection, then keep on talking about your fond memories together, and how much the marriage means to you both, until you know how to win your husband back.

Only once my husband started showing some affection and interest in me, did I decide to tell him how I felt. In learning how to win my husband back, I opened my heart up to him, without being clingy, desperate or needy. As soon as your husband gives off those signs of getting back together, you should open up to him and notice his response. And if his body language says otherwise, you should lay off and rather let him come to you.

When my husband separated from me, and considered getting a divorce, the above steps are what I followed in learning how to get my husband back. If your marriage is breaking down, then try these things out, and also look for other solid advice. But what is important, is that you stay strong and never give up, talk to your husband about working out your differences, and use divorce only as a last resort.

About the Author:

Nikki Frost specializes in relationships therapy and breakup advice. If you want a fool-proof step-by-step plan on How To Win Your Husband Back and avoid divorce, then she recommends The Magic Of Making Up - expert advice that has helped reunite 6874 relationships in the past year.

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