| Patient Children With These 6 Tips |
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| Written by Zacharias Allred |
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Children can learn patience many different ways. It takes persistence, though, but we all know it is necessary. After a child starts to talk it is time to start teaching patience. Here are 6 ideas to assist you in the endeavor. 1. Do not reward bad behavior. When a baby cries they need something. You would be neglecting your baby just to let them cry without any response. But eventually your child cries over everything even when they can talk. You need to let your child know that crying when ever they want something is no longer appropriate. They need to use words. 2. Be an example. You need to show your children that you are patient if you want them to learn patience. When you are waiting for someone what do you do? Do you make comments? Our children are always watching. 3. Acknowledge patient behavior. Take notice when your child does show patience. Perhaps they are waiting for you to do something before they ask their question. Tell them how proud you are of them. Thank them for being so patient. 4. Fast pace? When you come home from work or from shopping you may feel frazzled and tense. This can create a sense of anxiety in your children as they sense your disposition. Take some time each day where you just focus on them. Let them ask the questions they have or help them with something they are interested in. 5. Board games. Games where a child needs to wait their turn can be very good for teaching patience. I have done this and it can be frustrating at first because children are not used to waiting. Keep at it though and eventually your children will learn that it is enjoyable when others are having fun also. 6. Baking. Bake something with your child. Make sure the finished product is a cookie or piece of cake. Explain to them that the time it takes to cook is worth it because it tastes so much better cooked. Teaching children to be patient is not easy but it is possible. You must set a good example and then be consistent. Reward good behavior and engage your children in activities that naturally teach patience. About The Author: Obtain a free e book about parenting by going to Zacharias Allred's web site about teaching children. You can also click about teaching children to pray to read other free articles about teaching children virtues. Click here to get your own unique version of this article with free reprint rights. Kindly provided by 4Girls.dk You are welcome to use this article on your own website, if you include this link. |