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Extramarital Affair Whereabouts - and Who is it with

Written by Sally Webb

You have seen some signs to let you believe your partner is having an extramarital affair, but you don't know any other information or clue other than your own belief.

by SallyWebb

You have seen some signs to let you believe your partner is having an extramarital affair, but you don't know any other information or clue other than your own belief.

What, When and Where is he actually doing it - and with who?

Before we go on there is one point to remember, the woman he may be cheating with has the role of the third party - and she is not necessarily better than you in any way. He is just using her as an 'escape' to the problem he is having in your marriage - HIS problem.

It is up to you whether or not you want to find out about his extramarital affair - but remember that this is your choice for your peace of mind.

1. The Third Party

Ok, this is something that can lead to other clues - hence I put this first. After all, once you have a clearer suspicion on who he is having the extramarital affair with, you have a better guess at the other points that follow e.g. where and when he is meeting her.

This is how you would find out.

First step is to list down the names of people (ladies) he has mentioned recently. The good news is that there won't be a lot, and he must have mentioned the name once or twice before. This is due to the fact normally a cheating spouse did not plan his affair - hence he did not try to cover anything up right from the very beginning.

Usually the other woman has something in common with the cheating spouse, something that can lead him into the 'infatuation' stage with her. Yes, so the name will somehow be blurted out...no excuse about it.

Tips: If you happened to have freaked out in the process and he is clear that you are having this suspicion, try to recall the name of person/woman who he talked about just before you have this suspicion.

3. What is it they're doing

There must be things that they do - that you don't normally do with your spouse - the things that they have in common. Of course, as it is an extramarital affair there would be some physical intimacy involved some other times too.

This can be activity such as motorbike riding, sport, music, books, chess or even dancing (If they work together than their work activity can be used as the connector/the thing in common).

3. Where does it take place?

You should know him well enough to know what he enjoys doing. You should be able to guess where those activities take place easily. For example, you should know where he can do horse riding or motorbiking around your area - with the other woman. Also, don't be surprised if he meets her in your own area - very close to you as it is somewhere you wouldn't have suspected.

Another place is the workplace (Somewhere around his workplace).

4. When is he with her?

There is no easy answer for this, meeting his other woman around your area sounds crazy too.

Ok, if you live with him he sure knows your schedule - or he may have been more interested in your activity and schedule lately. As he is very close with you, he knows exactly which ones of your schedule would likely go through versus the ones that you may cancel in the last minute.

For example, if you take a sick leave on Monday - and you have been whining that you don't have enough sick leave left, he knows you will be away on Tuesday or Wednesday. Another example: If he knows you are attending your best friend's birthday party he knows you cannot get out of it.

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It's not easy when you are left blinded not knowing anything about your Cheating Spouse. Visit Sally Webb's cheating-spouse-alert.com to find more advice - how to catch cheating spouse.

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