| Love Lessons 101 - Five Romance Tips For The Guys |
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| Written by Marc Sandford |
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Romance can be defined in many ways, but the best ones refer to a feeling of excitement associated with love. This excitement can either be very intense or playful. If romance comes easy to you, you've got it within you to keep your relationship alive for a very long time. If it doesn't, it can be learned. 1.) Centuries ago, love letters and love poetry were very much an artistic production. They're unfashionable today, but things old fashioned and romance seem to go together. Get a book of love poetry, pick one poem and alter it so that she will believe that it was penned by you. Place it in a box of expensive chocolates and have it gift wrapped. 2.) Do something totally out of the blue. Women love being taken by surprise. The thing about surprises is that you're doing something that you ordinarily would not do. It may mean getting out of your zone of comfort a bit. If you are the stay-at-home type then try spending the evening (or weekend) on a well planned romantic outing. Planning in advance is important because without one, you'll just rely on the same old routines. Doing the same old routine is not the definition of a surprise. There's nothing less romantic than asking her: "Well? what do you want to do now?" If you're the pragmatic, unromantic type, this can be especially hard to do. However, you have a major advantage over the more practiced romantics: any romantic gesture coming from you will be huge to her since it's the least likely thing that she's expecting from you. The element of surprise is in your court. 3.) If her work week was very stressful, then get up early on Saturday morning and cook breakfast for her. Carry it to her bedside on a fancy tray for some breakfast in bed. Depending on her level of exhaustion, you may want to allow her some quiet time reading her favorite book or magazine. 4.) A simple fireplace is a potent ingredient for a romantic evening especially in the winter. A cheery fire combined with wine, champagne, a comfy love seat, and dimmed lights will produce the ideal ambiance for romance. This works even better if it is part of a getaway such as a skiing lodge, a log cabin, or a high-class hotel. 5.) When you're dealing with romance, you don't always have to hit the ball out of the park. Big, grand romantic gestures certainly work but can be hard to keep up on a daily basis. This is when frequent small gestures are used. Women tend to appreciate the small gestures and the big ones equally. So try to give her lots of compliments, kisses, hugs, touching, and expressions of appreciation. About The Author: Broke up recently? Get free advice on getting your ex back and find out if this product is any good - The Magic of Making Up. Kindly provided by 4Girls.dk You are welcome to use this article on your own website, if you include this link. |