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Home Home and Family Marriage Unseen and True Cost Of A Divorce May Be Higher Than You Think
Unseen and True Cost Of A Divorce May Be Higher Than You Think PDF Print E-mail
Written by Alex Archer   
We all hear it too often. Boy meets girl, both fall in love and decides to get married, down the road someone gets involved with an affair, one party is severely hurt by an affair and pushes for a divorce. Marriage ends and there goes another point to the board that says "Happy Endings Are Myth" and along with it paying the high cost of divorce, financially or emotionally.
by AlexArcher


We all hear it too often. Boy meets girl, both fall in love and decides to get married, down the road someone gets involved with an affair, one party is severely hurt by an affair and pushes for a divorce. Marriage ends and there goes another point to the board that says \"Happy Endings Are Myth\" and along with it paying the high cost of divorce, financially or emotionally.

Nowadays, divorce is so common that it's almost a household name. A divorce differs from an annulment in a way that divorce means an ending of marriage before death of either spouse while an annulment is a declaration making the marriage null and void in the first place.

In response to a variety of problems, couples may turn to divorce as a \"quick, easy and cheap\" solution to their relationship problems. However, people often jump to this option without realizing the cost of a divorce, in both emotional and financial terms.

Many people think a divorce will be over and done with quickly, and they can move on with their lives in little or no time. However, this is an misunderstanding of the complexity of the issue at hand; the average divorce usually takes about two years from beginning to end.

The financial cost of divorce differs from cases to cases. Although, most lawyers would tell you that the cost of a one-day trial would be around $3,000. That's the just for the lawyers alone. If you think of tagging along expert witnesses, the fees would significantly over and above that.

Also, many people about to go through a divorce often underestimate the cost of splitting up that doesn't appear at first glance. New mortgage payments or rent, a change in car or health insurance, the cost of a move to a new city or region, and of course child support or alimony, can all make a divorce a very costly thing to endure financially.

Then there's the emotional cost of the whole ordeal that could lead to serious psychological problems. Divorce process encourages the focus of the past. Past mistakes, past problems and past disagreements. This diverts the attention of the present, resulting both parties slide to deeper anger and discontent with each other, reinforcing the problem rather than finding a solution.

Throughout the divorce process, each party will also likely feel a need to blame the other, reinforcing the sense of wrongdoing and victimhood. Instead of taking responsibility to fix the problem, a divorce encourages a person to place the blame for the marital stress on the other person. This could lead to a feeling of not being able to do anything about, helplessness, and all too often, clinical depression.

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