| Woman Today And Her Mr. Right |
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| Written by Pam Baldwin |
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Finding herself in the burgeoning era of the 21st century, todayas woman has a myriad of standards she expects to find in a future partner. The women of today are grounded in their own plans, goals, and careers. Declaring judgment upon the man in her life has become a fastidious, abrupt process in which she determines the favorable and reasonable factors of his character. She has accomplished everything she set out to do thus far, finished college, got a great job. She is happy, but decides it is time to consider a more serious relationship than she experienced while in school. She will not treat her opportunities in love any more lightly than she has her professional opportunities, she will make a conscious deliberate decision. What will she want from a partner? That will all depend on her previous experience, the values she has, and her personality. She may be looking for a personality that compliments her own, someone dedicated to his job and who has worked hard to get where he is professionally. She may also be looking for someone like her father so she can recreate the positive home life she had as a child. Or she could be looking for her opposite, someone who sees the world differently and can show her different ways to enjoy it. Considering all of these options, her choices will be as varied as the women themselves. Finding a man who mirrors herself she would expect to find a man who is not lazy, one who puts forth much effort into his goals. She would be expecting to find a hard working man, a man who leaves no stone unturned, and finds quitting no option in life. This type of woman would find attractive qualities in a man who puts his own sense of self first and foremost. A woman who is looking for a relationship similar to what she saw between her parents would be looking for those specific qualities. Maybe she found in her home, growing up, a man and woman who committed to one another wholeheartedly and put first the pledge of loyalty and faith. Or she may have experienced a relationship that was comfortable in ways such as living their lives separately, having completely different interests and only shared their days by telling each other how their day went. Unfortunately she may have found her home to be one of loneliness, void of affection and devotion. This woman could be quite comfortable living this way. She would be looking for a man who lacks the ability to be close and only shares her life by going through the motions of everyday life. Some women want and search for excitement and stimulation. She would desire provocation of thought and action. This type of woman may like a man who is eclectic, flits from one ideal to another, and creates a sense of anonymity. This man would be creative, fearless and rebellious. The type of man a certain woman wants may never be discernable for she might not know herself. Women are as unique and varied as men. She might need a man who possesses a little of all of these qualities. She might need someone who is as hard-working as she is, but who also gets a little bit wild. Last of all we must acknowledge that women are searching for what they find most attractive; men that interest them intellectually as well as physically. Women can be enigmatic and often defy any attempt to categorize them. But, by accepting their mystery you will be closer to knowing what they really want. About The Author: To get more info on eharmony and other great online dating services, be sure to check out this great site about online dating (TopTenDatingServices.com). You will be glad you did. Kindly provided by 4Girls.dk You are welcome to use this article on your own website, if you include this link. |