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Self Improvement Advice Exploring The Myth Of Looks, Part 1
Self Improvement Advice Exploring The Myth Of Looks, Part 1| Exploring The Myth Of Looks, Part 1 |
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| Written by Joseph Matthews |
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One of the larger issues I have dealt with when it comes to my students is the looks issue. In short, most of these guys feel like they are too ugly! It's an insecurity that comes in all sorts of masks. Some examples: Some guys think they're too old. Some think they're too fat. Some think they're too short. Some think they're too ugly. Because of this, these men feel they are helpless when it comes to getting the kind of woman they desire. But lucky for all of us - this simply isn't the case. I want to take a moment and dispell a few attraction myths that hold men back from achieving success in their love life. Myth #1 - You have to be good looking to get women. All you have to do is look around at the various types of guys in this world who are dating gorgeous women to know that this isn't the case. Here's one of my rules of thumb: It's important to look good. It's NOT important to be good looking! There doesn't seem to be a difference, at first glance. There is though. You can't make yourself good looking- that's genetics (though some plastic surgeons might argue this.) You DO have utter control how you present yourself. Your clothing, grooming, haircut, body odor, etc.. All these appearance factors contribute to "looking good." Even the most average looking guy can be attractive when he takes control of his appearance. Myth #2 - Women Think Like Men Do It's natural to assume that everyone else in the world sees things the same way you see them. For instance - If you've ever had a pimple on your forehead that felt so big, it was like everyone could see it. But the pimple was under the skin, and in reality, no one but you could tell it was there. To you, it was clear as day. To everyone else, it was hardly noticable. When it comes to appraising other people, this methodology is typically applied. You judge a woman based on how she looks, right? You're able to size a woman up visually and determine whether or not you find her attractive, correct? So naturally, you assume women are going to size you up the same exact way. WRONG. Fortunately women have different criteria for what attracts them than we do. Sure, they like an attractive man, but they place much less importance on the physical attributes than we do. A woman bases her attraction more on how a man makes her feel, rather than how he looks. Hence, they are attracted to self confidence and high social standing. She'll love a man who makes her laugh, and appreciate a man who is good at what he does. These things are as important, or more so, than looks! I'll explore more of these myths in Part 2! About the Author: If you are too shy to meet women you'll definitely want to check out Joseph Matthew's free how to meet women newsletter where you'll get all the latest techniques and methods for meeting the girl of your dreams. Kindly provided by 4Girls.dk You are welcome to use this article on your own website, if you include this link. |
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