| Non Verbal Flirting, Part 5 |
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| Written by Joseph Matthews |
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In the last article of this series, I let you know just how important of a role your gestures play in flirting. In this one, I'll cover how your facial expressions play a very important, if not central role, in your flirting success. Now when most people think of facial expressions they usually conjure up images of Jim Carrey making a silly face, or some other comedian perhaps. Believe it or not, the facial expressions we display take on a powerful role in what we signal to the other person. And conversely, how they see us as well! Understand the importance here - the look on your face can be very off putting, and it will have NOTHING to do with your actual looks. If you scowl naturally, or come across as "expressionless", you can scare others away. It's always a good idea to take time to understand yourself. Look in the mirror. Get a handle on your natural expressions, and see how those can be of advantage (or disadvantage) to you. For now though, let's take a look at some facial expressions that are akin to the gestures I wrote about in the last article. A well known expression is the eyebrow raise. It's used to acknowledge another person from across a room, particularly when they can't say hello. You can try this with a stranger. It seems like it would be awkward, but actually, the idea is to create some confusion on their part. They'll be wondering who you are! It creates an opportunity to enter into conversation, but beware. It can backfire and end things before you can even begin. If the person you do this with finds you attractive, it generally will work, however. It will probably be evident in their facial expression. The big issue here, and one that most men run into, is that facial expressions are the most common way that someone expresses deceit when it comes to conversation. We look at each other's faces most of the time, so it's evident that is the first place we try to hide our feelings at. False expressions can hide our true feelings. Take for example, the social smile. While useful, it's annoying to have it done to us. However, there are signs, beneath the surface, that will show us the truth! In the next part of this article, I'll get into WHY they do that, and HOW we can use our facial expressions to our advantage! About the Author: It doesn't have to be difficult to meet women. Go to Joseph Matthew's website and sign up for his free meet women newsletter to discover how to make it easy. Kindly provided by 4Girls.dk You are welcome to use this article on your own website, if you include this link. |