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Written by Carol Cheung   
It is quite difficult to break a relationship when we feel that we need to part ways with our partners. You are not adding an enemy when you break up. Probably you think it would be very hard to remain as friends with your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend after breaking up. It is actually not that difficult.
by CarolCheung


It is quite difficult to break a relationship when we feel that we need to part ways with our partners. You are not adding an enemy when you break up. Probably you think it would be very hard to remain as friends with your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend after breaking up. It is actually not that difficult.

There is not just love or hate within a relationship. When you are developing a romantic relationship with you partner, you are also developing your friendship. Your partner is not just your lover, but also your friend. The friendship between you and your partner can last even if your romantic relationship ends. However, it is still difficult to maintain the friendship if you do not know how to handle it well after a breakup.

You can try out the following tips to maintain your friendship with your ex-boyfriend/ girlfriend after breaking up.

Don't fly into a tantrum easily. You should beware of your reaction during the breakup process, if you want to be friends with your ex after a breakup. Anger can make you lose control and do something you will regret later on, thus don't easily react in anger.

You should be calm even if something hurtful happens. Your ex will certainly respect you if you are able to behave like this.

Avoid telling others negative things about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. Try not to tell others how bad your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend was. Breaking up does make you feel upset, but you should mind your words if you still want to be friends with your ex.

Learn to be friends with no stings attached. You may desire some romantic suggestions from your ex after being friends. However, you should control yourself not to have these expectations from your ex in the friendship. If you have some romantic thoughts, you may even worsen the friendship between you and your ex.

Don't give any conditions to your ex when he/she agrees being friends with you. If you can maintain friendship with your ex without any conditions, you will discover that things later on will happen according to what you desire. Sometimes you may realize that your ex is better to be your friend rather than your lover.

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