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Approaching Girls with Confidence PDF Print E-mail
Written by Chris Miller   
The biggest obstacle to the approach is the feeling of being overwhelmed. This kind of fear will undoubtedly show in your actions and words. The anxiety becomes unbearable when you think of cool things to say but nothing comes out. There is also no assurance that the girl will be interested in you. You have no idea how to behave if she doesn't react to your flirting and if you run out of cool things to say.
by ChrisMiller


The biggest obstacle to the approach is the feeling of being overwhelmed. This kind of fear will undoubtedly show in your actions and words. The anxiety becomes unbearable when you think of cool things to say but nothing comes out. There is also no assurance that the girl will be interested in you. You have no idea how to behave if she doesn't react to your flirting and if you run out of cool things to say.

The expression for this powerlessness to approach ladies is approach anxiety. Healing this is tricky because you're bound to feel this every time you approach girls. Even the veteran players still feel this around girls, believe it or not. You cannot eliminate approach anxiety completely, but you can discover how to cope even though you still feel jumpy when approaching ladies.

Allow me to share some suggestions.

1. Assume an Open Body Language

There are different kinds of people around in a bar. When you get there, you do not know anyone so you sit by yourself with your drink. Take a few minutes to look around, after which you've to get up and socialize. In a crowded nightclub, people are expected to mingle. Social interaction is the name of the game.

Ladies are looking at you. Your actions are being observed. Drinking alone and not talking to anybody would give the impression that you're creepy. They'd think you are all set on getting drunk alone and you do not want to mingle. Mingling with others begins with your body language. Be more easy to talk to even when everyone around is a stranger.

2. Make Eye Contact

Making eye contact with another person is easy. The hard part is knowing what to do once you have made eye contact with a woman. A woman would either give you a passive look or a receptive look. A passive look is when you look in a specific direction and you accidentally lock eyes with someone. This means you're not really planning on speaking with that person and your look goes somewhere else. In the case of a responsive look, your eyes convey your desire to approach a girl. When you make this type of contact, the ladies gets an idea of what you plan to do next. If you plan to come up to the girl, you just gave a signal by meeting her eye.

Locking eyes might also mean measuring your level of confidence compared to the other person. She may look away initially, act shy or flustered. It's not always a given that a lady is more confident just because guys are approaching her. It's more likely that many ladies are more easily flustered when the man is self-confident.

3. Smirk

At the proper intensity, eye contact can make a girl blush. The impact of a well-placed look can be intense. Smiling can lessen the intensity and result in a warm feeling. A smile can inform her that you want to chat. It's like your whole face lights up, and she can't help but smile back.

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