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Home Self Improvement Self Help How to Manage Your Time when Meeting Women - Part 1
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Written by Vin DiCarlo   
Dating can be your best pal.
by VinDiCarlo


Dating can be your best pal.

...OR your big enemy.

Most of the time, a man can feel like a slave to his natural need to procreate.

Then there goes a common quote, "He thinks with his... You know."

Well it can be tough to NOT think that way if you aren't sensually satisfied.

But men are also goal oriented.

We need to achieve things and influence the world in a good way. And we are doers of it.

I've personally faced one of the biggest challenges and it is balancing the two - my carnal obsession and achieving my goals.

When you are single, dating can take a lot of time. If you don't know what you're doing, women will suck away at your time.

Before you know it, you are spending hours in the park, feeding the birds and cuddling... there's nothing wrong with spending a quality time with your girlfriend, AS LONG AS YOU DON'T compromise YOUR GOALS IN LIFE.

Goals take time, and so do women.

In fact, it's a woman's NATURE to get the man's time - it's her way of getting you to invest in her. If she gets pregnant there's a lesser chance of you leaving her (this comes from our caveman days, so to speak).

Managing your time with women can get really tricky. You see, most guys WANT to give women their time. Men are by nature the "givers." They like to please women, protect them, and give them good feelings.

Guys have also a urges that can completely take over your thinking.

Both of these things can get in the way of you making the most of your life, your time.

Now take a minute to ask yourself about this, "WHAT DO I REALLY WANT TO GIVE TO WOMEN?"

Now I bet it is not about "money," or "control over my life," or "lots of my free time."

It was probably something like "good feelings, sexual pleasure, relaxation, excitement, feeling of safety, make her smile or feel good about herself, etc."

There are two ways that I think why men have problems with how they use their time with women.

First, they think that the gifts they REALLY want to give aren't that valuable, so they overcompensate with other stuff - like spending too much time or money on a woman.

Second, men think that they are "getting" something valuable when a girl spends time with them.

Society brainwashes men to believe that women are a prize to claim, and that there's some inherent value in a pretty face.

That's so untrue!

The best naturals out there see women for what they are, nothing more, nothing less. They are cute, sometimes fun, but ultimately not that important, AND THEY CAN'T COMPLETE YOUR LIFE!

Now it can be really hard to break out of this mental prison of feeling inferior to women.

Your mental habits are subtle and hard to notice because you've been doing them for years.

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