| Is It Fun or Feel like Work Meeting Women --- Part I |
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| Written by Vin DiCarlo |
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Does meeting with women seems like a WORK to you? And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you're doing you're still not getting an inch closer to your goal? If you agreed to those questions, then you may continue reading. In fact, dating game can be quite frustrating. Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend. You think everything is going great with a girl and she stops returning your calls. Though of course we know that it is the man that exerts a lot of moves in order to make things right and moving. You must have the courage in the way you approach. YOU have to keep the conversation going at first, YOU have to escalate physically, YOU have to get HER number or rack your brain to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date. Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior. (Don't get me started on that...let's just think that girls are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "pretty.") Being not "extroverted" by nature can be pretty exhausting. ... I have encountered a client that has a problem of "extroversion fatigue." I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to struggle with it before. Before I began to teach myself pickup, I would go out, and be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women. I would take a break and rest! Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job. I would go home and be absolutely DEAD ... from SPEAKING TO WOMEN! Does it make sense to you??? As a whole, there is a general dating fatigue. Having a discouraging results, an emotional ups and downs with regards to the hard work and effort that I make just to have a girl to hang out with me or to sleep with me. It was like a full time job and I was working overtime! When I first got in this game, I literally had to force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.) But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration). It's like a professional athletes that pushes themselves in the gym, that is how I pursue myself. I was working muscles I had never used before, or to be more precise, I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS. If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this. About Author: Vin DiCarlo is a expert pick up artist trainer, who's highly advance website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has taught about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show. Kindly provided by 4Girls.dk You are welcome to use this article on your own website, if you include this link. |