| Is Love Sweeter The Second Time Around |
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| Written by Anne Torres |
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Love is sweeter the second time around. Or so says romance novels and real stories. However, the former are escapist fare, while the last mentioned are exclusions to the rule. Still, love is a compelling force that needs another chance at happiness. That said, should you get back together with your ex? Oh, yes. Let's face it. You were miserable when you were apart, and you will do anything short of begging to get your love back. You want another chance to make it lovelier for both of you. But first, ask yourself these questions: Do you still genuinely, madly, profoundly love each other? Can you work over, even forgive and forget the reasons for your break-up? Are you the right person for each other, given the past troubles you have had? Do your friends and family approve of a possible reunification? If your answer to all four questions is a resounding "Yes!", then your answer to the niggling issue of should you get back together with your ex is likewise a resounding "Yes, I do". A word of caution: Do not cannonball into the reunion. Instead, take your own sweet time in rediscovering each other by going out on dates, trying new things, and talking through your past issues with patience. It will also help to be celibate while you are at it. Oh, no, no, no, no On the other side of the "should you get back together with your ex" issue, you should say "No, thanks. I'm done with the relationship" under the following circumstances: You want your ex back because you do not want others to have a slice of the pie. You want what others want directly because it was yours first. Tsk, tsk. You want to prove to yourself and to others that you have what it takes to lure your ex back. Ego is at work here. About the Author: Just be patient and you will surely get there. Kindly provided by 4Girls.dk You are welcome to use this article on your own website, if you include this link. |